The Suicide Crisis

I want the world to know that suicidal thoughts are unwanted thoughts.

I was shocked when these uninvited thoughts began to emerge. The first reaction being: "Oh my God, stop thinking that." It was not difficult back then to just push the thought from mind.
As time pushes on though and the depression digs itself in.....the unwanted answer keeps offering itself more frequently and more boldly. There is little conscious thinking before the idea appears. A voice - not my own, offers the suggestion at very vulnerable times. Last night was one such time.

It came abruptly and forcefully. "Get the pills and be done with this." My response came as quickly. I drove myself to a remote part of a park. As my sane voice began to debate with the sick voice I got out of the car and began to pace around a bit. My palms were beginning to sweat and I could feel my heart rate increase. The urging of the sick voice became louder in my head and began to drown out the protesting of the ever weakening sane voice. Just as it seemed that the illness would win - I heard a voice. At first I was so lost in thought I hardly knew from where it came. But there standing right in front of me, stood a woman asking me a question. I however, hadn't heard. Her gaze went from me to a logo on the front of my jacket. "Are you a golfer?", she asked. "No", I replied. "This jacket is just from a fundraiser". She simply smiled....nodded and walked past me.

My dangerous argument had quieted. My mind back to a calmer silence.

The crisis abated by a curious stranger.

Such madness.

Cyberspace - My Invisible Lifeline

I want anyone who is reading this to know that you are serving as my lifeline.
As crazy as it may sound - you are standing in for the professionals.
In her wisdom a therapist concluded (after meeting me once) that I was too depressed for her credentials. She set me adrift......to somehow go it alone until her recommended expert could see me in 4 weeks. I guess finding oneself in a hotel room with the express purpose of overdosing is a surefire way to have a therapist wash their hands of you.

That's where you come in.

I suppose there has to be some twisted humor in the image of the depressed/suicidal patient finally being able to squeak out a barely audible "H-E-L-P!!", only to have the door closed on their pathetic self.
So, I have decided to come to you to help ensure my safety. I know this imaginary door will always be open.

Thank you for being here.

Will I Ever Be Me Again?

In seeking help I was asked to try and explain what this hell that has taken over my life actually feels like.

Here is my lame attempt:

Imagine what "emotional amnesia" might be like. You are living with people and interacting with people that you feel a complete disconnect with. Your mind tells you that they are people you love and who love you but you can't "feel" it. You can't feel them at all. You can't feel their joys, their pain, their laughter. They're like strangers living in your world. It's like being dropped into another person's home and living there. The worst part is - you are powerless to change it. The more you try to think your way out of it.....the further away people feel. Complete isolation.

Each day you stumble through like this. The endless day turning into an endless night....